Sunday, September 17, 2006
note: the post below is completely random. i'm not referring to any incident or person in particular
i was looking at shaun's msn nick,
"don't smile when you're mad" it says
to not smile when u're mad is normal, but people nowadays are getting more and more abnormal. the face no longer depicts what the mind is thinking anymore. when u're pissed, the best thing to do is to just put a fake smile just to avoid any form of conflict/unhappiness. i must admit i used to do that all the time too and i still do it now. it's kinda convenient, just a fake smile and everything will turn out fine.
so that's a good thing, or is it? maybe... but surely, overdoing is harmful.
they say if you've anything or anyone u're unhappy with, just blurt it out. yea but not everyone accepts criticism that easily. if they think you're wrong, they'll be angry at you, saying that you have no right to judge them bla bla... (then again, i dont see what's wrong with it if you have an opinion about someone, cos it's what that person have shown you) and this it will only cause relationships to fall apart. there may be other possibilties. this may happen, that may happen... bla bla bla... we'll never know what will happen next... so we should just keep out mouths shut and smile more often, is that it? that is obviously not the way to go about doing it... what's a happy world when everyone is actually feeling unhappy on the inside? but sadly, that's the only way out at times...
so we ask, 'what else can we do?'
1) just say it out
2) train yourself to not feel pissed whatever the situation may be
option 2 is not easy, but it's usually the best way out. just accept things for what they are, no matter how much u don't like it. sounds cliche you say? but can you do it? asakura yoh influenced me on that (animes are worth watching sometimes). of course, it depends on the situation u're in.
i always thought that i'm pretty good at telling what people are thinking, but obviously i was wrong... this world is getting more and more and more and more and more complicated. i did mention it before, about how i wish that everything would be like when we're 5 year-old kids, when everything was so simple...
the ability to predict what others are thinking... i wish i can have that. not the one like jean grey, just know roughly what people want... so that i can help... but yea, it's hard...
aiya, shan't think so much... i hate thinking about such stuff. makes my head hurts.
off to lala land le! ohasimi!
aaron | 11:11 PM
